You Are The Master Of Your Body

And ultimately your destiny. The trainer can only provide suggestions. If you were a captain of a ship, the trainer is like the lighthouse, all he or she can do is shine as brightly as they can. It is your choice to come directly, run into rocks, or veer from the course. The trainer cannot overstep their bounds, and you cannot expect to be saved. It's a collaboration with both parties fulfilling their roles.